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5 Exclusive Tips for Hiring a Foreign Domestic Caregiver for Elderly Care

Since care centres may not provide the best service, a lot of people would rather let their aged parents stay with them or stay alone. In that case, especially when there are only the elderly in the house for most of the day, people tend to opt for hiring a full-time, live-in domestic worker. However, a lot of complications can arise from this!

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Hiring a domestic helper to take care of the is a tricky one. Some might like it because it’s a relatively easier, and physically less demanding task, on the other hand, some might dislike it because they are seldom able to develop a bond with the elderly, and the tend to treat the domestic helpers like servants. Also, you will most likely only be able to pick from Indonesian domestic workers, because they are trained in Cantonese. Even so, if your elderly might need someone to accompany him/her in the toilet and while taking bath, you need to ask the domestic helper whether it is fine with her, because due to religious restrictions, some domestic helpers might not be willing to do it.

interview for hiring a helper for care taking

What should you pay attention to when selecting the right foreign domestic caretaker?

1. Is her job experiences relevant?

Of course, it is great that the helper has care experience. However, you should be mindful about whether her experience will be helpful when it comes to taking care of your elderly.

Her previous job duties might be very different from what you need. For example, the previous person she has taken care of might need to be moved around in a wheelchair and like going out, but your aged mother might have Dementia and only stay at home.

In this case, your domestic helper’s previous experience would not help a lot. You will need to train her in the first few months of employment.

2. Does she have a trustworthy and patient personality?

Most of the time, the domestic helper’s personal qualities are more important than her skills. This can be found out through interviews and contacting her previous employer/ reviewing her reference letters.

During the interview, there are 3 things you should do to assess her capability to take care of the elderly.

– observe whether she is willing to take care of the ;
– communicate with her to see whether she is patient and empathetic; and
suggest some scenarios that can happen while taking care of the elderly and ask her what she would do

Her answers do not have to be perfect because she is not a medical professional, but in her answers, you can see whether she has common sense and whether she is good at improvising.

3. Try out and observe the elderly’s reaction

Finally, if you find her suitable, you can invite her to the elderly’s home for a try-out. The person’s reaction is the most important thing you should look for.

Some might dislike having an outsider and a foreigner in the house, and some elderly might not be able to understand the domestic helper’s Cantonese. After the domestic helper has left, you can ask the elderly what he/she thinks about her. Even though you might think that his/her negative opinion of her is due to prejudice, you should not hire that domestic helper. She might be doing an amazing job, but as long as the elderly person does not like her, they are unlikely to get along.

elderly care takes patience, compromise, and communication.

Communicate Expectations

You need to communicate with both the elderly and the domestic helper about your expectations.

To the elderly

You might need to change some of their perceptions about domestic workers. Due to how it is in the past, the elderly might treat the domestic helper like a “mui-tsai”, which means a young female servant.

Tell him/her how domestic helper is different from a “mui-tsai” and what her job duties include and do not include. For example, the elderly cannot ask her to give them massages and wash their feet unless it is for medical reasons. Also, kindly ask them to respect the domestic helper’s culture and religion.

To the

Some elderly people might have taboos and things they are sensitive about, inform the domestic helper about them so she could avoid them. Also, the elderly might have their special habits, such as they might like to keep a teacup on the table at all times. You can inform your domestic helper about this so she would not need to try to clean it up every time.

If the elderly have special medication treatment and dietary requirement needed, you should also let her know what medication the elderly should take, when to take, and what to be mindful about when it comes to preparing meals.

You should also ask her about what she would be uncomfortable with during caretaking. As discussed, there are some taboos due to the helper’s cultural background and she might not feel comfortable doing.

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First aid skills and emergency situations

Since your domestic helper’s main duty is to take care of the elderly, it might be good to send her to a first aid course. When emergencies happen, such as when the elderly person chokes or is bleeding a lot, your domestic helper can immediately provide care for the elderly person before the ambulance arrives. After attending such a course, she will get a first-aid certificate certifying that she has the skills. When interviewing a new domestic helper, you may ask her if she has such certifications and if she is able to show you the training certificate.

You should inform your domestic helper where to go when emergencies happen. Write the contact information down on a piece of paper and put it somewhere obvious in the house so she would not have to look for them when emergencies happen.

– For less serious cases, ask her to call you.
– For serious incident happens (i.e. when the elderly person falls down or faints), ask her to call the emergency hotline 999 immediately, then call you afterwards.
– For medical situation, tell her about the numbers and addresses of the nearest hospital, emergency service and the doctor the elderly person goes to.

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